We choose unavailable people because subconsciously we are afraid of intimacy – there’s no real risk. Unavailable people can hurt your ego, but they can’t hurt your soul.
if you’re not connecting in the deep, fulfilling way that your soul secretly aches for, maybe you’ve been doing what I was doing: avoiding true intimacy because of fear, recreating situations that mirror the emotions of your childhood, and choosing partners with an impossible future because the quest distracts you from the truth.
Do you know the difference between dating a boy versus dating a man? If not, read up!
The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands.
The media does a grand job of reinforcing this culture and perception of “lack of”, and if you throw some daddy issues into the mix, you end up with girls who have some serious self-worth and identity issues.