Amy Chan

How to Hack Your Charisma

Do you ever observe charismatic people work a room and wish you could be as magnetic? This article will reveal how you can hack your charisma to be more effective, attractive and powerful.

The Death of a Pattern

We choose unavailable people because subconsciously we are afraid of intimacy – there’s no real risk. Unavailable people can hurt your ego, but they can’t hurt your soul.

The Plan That Was Never Yours

The plan consisted of a linear progression of relationship that looked like this: date, get married, have kids, stay together forever. They would do anything to keep that plan intact – even if that meant enduring abuse and sacrificing their needs.

The Wound That Causes You To Over Give

Not all giving is created equal, as there are different roots of “giving”. The gift may appear the same on the outside, but the root of that gift creates completely different energy.

Sorry, I’m Not Sorry

As I started to become more comfortable in my own skin, and more aligned in my values, I realized that I value being authentic more than being liked. And actually, I’m not sorry.

The Real Reason I Chose Unavailable Men

if you’re not connecting in the deep, fulfilling way that your soul secretly aches for, maybe you’ve been doing what I was doing: avoiding true intimacy because of fear, recreating situations that mirror the emotions of your childhood, and choosing partners with an impossible future because the quest distracts you from the truth.

Birthday Musings

For the last few years, each birthday I take myself on a date to my fave breakfast spot in New York, sit at the…

The Lie That Keeps You Single

“I want a relationship. I’m ready to settle down with someone.” Bullshit. I’m calling your bluff and I’m guilty of lying too. On a…