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Why I Won’t Date You Again

Since a little dating 101 is never a bad thing, I’m going to share a few tips and pointers...

Aug 11 · 1 min read >

Your Essence

People will always flock to you because of all the good qualities you present – your success, your popularity,...

Mar 18 · 22 sec read >

Opening Up My Heart Again

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Sometimes that reason comes in the...

Jul 30 · 1 min read >

3 Things That Don’t Change For Love

Part of the beauty of life is that we are constantly changing. We are shaped by our experiences and...

May 29 · 1 min read >

What Is Love?

Because for love you will make sacrifices, you will be selfless and you will say sorry even when you...

Apr 30 · 3 min read >

Closure

When you go through a breakup, one of the ways to move forward is to find closure. Closure has...

Feb 9 · 1 min read >

Mistakes Can Make or Break You

As I approach my 30th birthday, I’ve taken time to reflect how much has changed in my life in...

Feb 1 · 1 min read >

Who You Surround Yourself With, You Become

During high school, we gravitated towards certain friends due to our aspirations and interests of our youth. BFF qualifiers...

Nov 28 · 1 min read >

My letter to a dear friend going through a breakup…(an old post from 2009)

Breakups are never easy…and even though you survived your first one a few years ago, for some reason, it...

Nov 16 · 2 min read >

Your Worth

We’ve all been there – feeling victimized by a friend, a boss, or a lover – who has treated...

Nov 15 · 3 min read >

The Sorry Syndrome

Living in Vancouver, hearing the words “I’m sorry” is as common as the greeting “hello”. We say sorry a...

Nov 3 · 1 min read >

Lesson of Heartbreak

I’ve been blessed with a very fortunate life. But like everyone else out there, I’ve had my share of...

Oct 31 · 1 min read >

The One-Night-Stand Kind

Somewhere along the way of our socialization in North America, females learned how to use their sexuality to lure...

Sep 26 · 1 min read >

Lessons in Domestic Partnership

For many, domestic partnership is the next logical step in the relationship growth path after the dating stage. While...

Jul 28 · 1 min read >

Nurture Your Important Relationships

You meet the man of your dreams. As he courts you, he showers you with attention and affection. He...

Jun 3 · 1 min read >

Is Cheating Genetic?

Could your partner’s potential to be promiscuous lie partially in his/her DNA? Researchers from Binghamton University seem to think...

May 20 · 1 min read >

5 Ways To Keep Your Relationship Exciting

You’re in a rut. You’ve been with your partner for many years now. Life now is about routine, chores...

Mar 8 · 2 min read >

Are You a Good Friend?

This person is your BFF when they are single and needs you to be the wing person in order...

Jan 25 · 42 sec read >

Relationship Reality Check

When I was a little girl, I fantasized that one day, I’d find my prince charming who was handsome...

Jan 7 · 2 min read >

Learning How to Fight

One of the largest hurdles and growing pains a couple will experience is learning how to communicate during times...

Dec 9 · 3 min read >

Ingredients For a Healthy Relationship

Love and romantic relationships can be a very hard thing to understand at times. It’s complex, irrational, and emotional,...

Nov 11 · 3 min read >

Know What You Don’t Want

People say that as you grow older, you learn to identify what you want in a partner. However, I’m...

Sep 1 · 2 min read >

True Romance: Is There Such a Thing?

Growing up with fairytales, hallmark holidays and romantic movies – at a very young age, we formed a picture...

Jul 26 · 2 min read >

Working it Out Vs Tossing it Out

As a young girl, I interpreted events of my childhood that has created a perception of reality that has...

Jul 15 · 2 min read >

Not So, “Sex and the City”

Armed in stilettos from Manolo to Madden, females all over the world have been anticipating Sex and the City...

Jul 9 · 3 min read >

The Aftermath of Bullying

Do you know how young someone can be when they start to contemplate harmful thoughts, such as suicide? For...

Jun 28 · 2 min read >

Good vs Great Relationships

Men hunt and women nurture right? The concept of the man who hunts for his prey, spreads his seeds...

May 13 · 2 min read >

Lessons Learned This Birthday

Today is my birthday. Another year lived, and what a year it has been. Components of my life have...

Feb 17 · 3 min read >

Fear vs Love

“Your actions are birthed from a place of fear or a place of  love. If you do something that...

Dec 30 · 2 min read >

The Vitamin Kind

Secret confession:  I am kicking a habit of drugs. Hold your gasps, I’m not talking about the narcotics kind,...

Oct 7 · 2 min read >

Rejection Reread

When I was a little girl, I moved from an all Asian school to an all Caucasian school at...

Sep 16 · 3 min read >

My Very Own, Choose Your Own Adventure Book

Your twenties are such a whimsical time of your life. Your twenties marks the decade where you will endure...

Aug 25 · 2 min read >

Nobody Said It Was Easy

Perseverance and commitment are two big themes that I’ve contemplated about this year.  In the last year,  I’ve explored...

Aug 17 · 2 min read >