if you’re not connecting in the deep, fulfilling way that your soul secretly aches for, maybe you’ve been doing what I was doing: avoiding true intimacy because of fear, recreating situations that mirror the emotions of your childhood, and choosing partners with an impossible future because the quest distracts you from the truth.
You wake up to 15 missed calls and an assault of text messages escalating from “Hey what are you up to?” to complete hatred “I don’t believe you’re ignoring me you f*cking as*hole!” Chances are, you’re dating someone with an anxious attachment style. Here’s how to deal.
If you are not getting the relationship outcomes you want, there may be one thing that’s getting in your way of happily ever after….
Do you know what your attachment style is? How we emotionally bond to others is determined by the first years of life, and it can explain why your relationships are failing.