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Friends With Benefits Enough?

My ‘Ask Amy’ column as seen on the 24 Hours Newspaper. Dear Amy, I am 30 and I am...

Dec 20 · 1 min read >

A Letter to the Other Woman

Were we born monogamous creatures? No. However, we (many in society) have chosen to commit to monogamy. And the...

Dec 14 · 2 min read >

The Dating Game

Being back in the dating scene again in recent months, I’ve been reminded of the delicate dance that occurs...

Dec 7 · 2 min read >

Gold Digging Doesn’t Pay Off

I’ve heard people joke about Vancouver having a significant amount of gold diggers. For those of you who are...

Nov 30 · 1 min read >

Is There Such a Thing as Casual Cocaine Use?

"What is especially deadly about cocaine is that there is no correlation between how many times you’ve used cocaine...

Nov 16 · 1 min read >

5 Normalizations of Society that Need a Reality Check

Ignorance is not bliss. Do you choose to use the status-quo as your compass, or, your values, morals and...

Nov 10 · 4 min read >

A World of Strangers Weep for You – RIP Amanda Todd

Yesterday, a Port-Coquitlam teenager, Amanda Todd, committed suicide after suffering countless attacks of bullying. The girl had created a...

Oct 12 · 1 min read >

Processing the Pain of Infidelity

This time last year, I was in Paris with the man I thought I’d spend the rest of my...

Sep 24 · 7 min read >

Processing Pain

I’m starting to understand and appreciate that situations, such as breakups, loss, etc – can act like catalysts. Painful...

Aug 20 · 1 min read >

5 Things to Honor in Friendship

There is an unspoken code amongst friends – one that is based on a set of shared values. Throughout...

Aug 13 · 3 min read >

Opening Up My Heart Again

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Sometimes that reason comes in the...

Jul 30 · 1 min read >

5 Don’ts I Would Tell My Younger Self

If I could tell my younger self, and even the woman today who often forgets, I would tell her,...

Jul 24 · 4 min read >

Dealing with Anger After a Breakup

In my reaction to dehumanize the object of my anger, I have forgotten compassion. Compassion for him, and compassion...

Jul 4 · 1 min read >

Rewriting the Script

While I cannot change my childhood, my upbringing and my history, I can change my reaction to it. The...

Jun 11 · 1 min read >

Is a relationship salvageable after cheating?

Cheating doesn’t just happen by accident. Instead, it is really the end result of a series of seemingly harmless...

Jun 10 · 1 min read >

You Are Beautiful

Don't let the story in your head about who you should be take away from the perfect, amazing person...

May 30 · 1 min read >

3 Things That Don’t Change For Love

Part of the beauty of life is that we are constantly changing. We are shaped by our experiences and...

May 29 · 1 min read >

When Everything You Think You Know For Sure, Isn’t So Sure After All

If there is one thing I have learned, it is that just when you think you’ve got it all...

May 17 · 1 min read >

Lust at First Sight

Amy: I’m in love. I met my soulmate! Wise friend: But, when did you two meet? Amy: Last week....

May 15 · 2 min read >

Are Rich Men More Likely To Cheat and Behave Badly?

Seems like Chris Rock was on to something when he joked, "Men are only as faithful as their options."...

May 14 · 2 min read >

What Vancouver Women Are Really About

To my fellow women of Vancouver - we are more than sexual creatures, let's start showcasing the other aspects...

May 9 · 1 min read >

Networking in Vancouver: Women Making a Difference

Interviewed by Networking In Vancouver as a ‘Woman Making  a Difference’. Read the article here.

Apr 29 · 3 sec read >

I was born a dreamer…

I was born a dreamer. Experience taught me to become a realist...

Apr 28 · 33 sec read >

3 Things To Give Up To Be Happy

Give up being a victim. The perspective that you are just the result of all external variables deflects responsibility...

Apr 25 · 2 min read >

Can We Stop Posing Now?

I have a lot of respect for the people who have the courage to be raw, authentic, honest and…...

Apr 18 · 1 min read >

Who Are Your Role Models?

Looking back at the various stages of my life, I realise that role models played a great part in...

Apr 9 · 2 min read >

The Unrealistic Picture of the Real Housewives of Vancouver

A show that highlights the allure, glamour and excitement of women who joke about being “gold-diggers”, living in...

Apr 5 · 2 min read >

Are You Chasing the Right Things?

In the rush of life, the race to the top, and with the perception that happiness is the result...

Mar 30 · 2 min read >

Are Men Trained To Hate Women?

I read an interesting article titled, 5 Ways Modern Men Are Trained to Hate Women. Is it true? Is...

Mar 27 · 1 min read >

Breakups are Blessings

The relationships that don’t work out aren't failures nor are they a waste of time. They are meant to...

Mar 20 · 2 min read >

How You Can Rewire Your Brain for Happiness

I recently watched an inspiring TED talk by Shawn Achor. He refutes conventional wisdom that teaches us that success,...

Mar 16 · 1 min read >

Imagine

Imagine if women helped boost other women up, and focused on supporting each other verus competing and tearing each...

Mar 5 · 2 min read >

5 Lessons on Love

Every birthday, I take time to reflect on the past year – my accomplishments, hardships and most importantly, the...

Feb 23 · 4 min read >

What I Want for Valentine’s Day

This Valentine’s Day, forget the flowers, the chocolates, the fancy dinners or the lingerie. Forget the grand gestures. Forgo...

Feb 14 · 1 min read >

Closure

When you go through a breakup, one of the ways to move forward is to find closure. Closure has...

Feb 9 · 1 min read >

Mistakes Can Make or Break You

As I approach my 30th birthday, I’ve taken time to reflect how much has changed in my life in...

Feb 1 · 1 min read >